Orient before instructing
Introduce household members, explain names and preferred forms of address, then show the room, bathroom, kitchen basics and where personal belongings can be kept. Confirm whether she needs to contact family after arrival.
Walk through emergency exits, locks, alarms, gas or electrical safety and any immediate child, older-person or pet risk. Ask her to show where the key contacts and exits are.
Teach one routine and set tomorrow’s start
Choose a simple routine that is needed that day, such as preparing a basic meal or organising the morning essentials. Demonstrate the result and sequence rather than listing abstract standards.
Before rest, state the next day’s wake time, first task, meal arrangement and person to approach with questions. The first-day goal is orientation, not productivity proof.