Ask about formula and sleep the way you would ask about any skill you cannot see performed
Formula preparation sounds simple until you ask a candidate to describe it in order: boiling and cooling water to the right temperature, measuring powder accurately, checking the bottle temperature before feeding, and what she does when a baby won't settle after being fed. Someone who has done this before will mention the small details unprompted, like testing a drop on her wrist or discarding a bottle left out too long. Someone reciting a memorized answer usually stops at the first two steps and struggles with the rest.
Safe sleep works the same way. Ask her to describe how she settles a baby for a nap, not just where the baby sleeps. A candidate with hands-on experience talks about placing the baby on their back, keeping the cot free of loose bedding and toys, and what she does if the baby wakes distressed rather than simply leaving them to cry. If she has cared for a newborn before, she will usually have an opinion on this, not just a rule she read somewhere.
- Ask her to describe the full formula routine, start to finish.
- Ask what she does when a bottle-fed baby won't settle.
- Ask how she positions a baby for sleep and why.
- Ask what she would change if the baby seemed unsettled at night.
Judge the answer by its specificity, not its confidence
A confident answer is not the same as an experienced one. Some candidates interview well because they have done many interviews, not because they have cared for many babies. The way to tell the difference is to ask for a specific example: a time a baby refused feeding, a time she noticed something was wrong, a time the routine had to change because the baby's needs did. A candidate drawing on real experience will give you a small, concrete story, sometimes with a detail that doesn't flatter her, like a bottle she had to remake because the temperature was off.
For health signs specifically, ask what she would actually do, not only what she would notice. Recognizing a fever or unusual crying is one thing; knowing to inform the household promptly, monitor feeding and rest, and not attempt to treat the baby herself is another. The second part of the answer tells you far more about judgment than the first.
- Ask for one specific moment, not a general description.
- Notice if the story includes something that went wrong and how she handled it.
- Ask what she would do next, not only what she would notice.