Build questions around dishes your family actually eats
A question like 'can you cook Malaysian, Chinese and Western food' invites a confident yes from almost anyone, because it asks for a category, not a demonstration. Replace it with something concrete: pick two or three dishes your household eats often, name them, and ask her to describe how she would prepare each one from scratch, including what she'd do differently if an ingredient wasn't available.
Listen for sequence and detail rather than the final claim. Someone who has cooked a dish many times can usually walk through the order of steps, roughly how long each stage takes, and what can go wrong along the way. Someone reciting an answer tends to jump to the outcome ('it will taste good') without the steps that get there, or gives an answer that would fit almost any dish you named.
- Name the actual dish, not the cuisine category
- Ask for the order of steps, not just the ingredients
- Ask what she'd substitute if a key ingredient were missing
Ask dietary and food-safety questions as scenarios, not yes/no
If your household keeps halal, avoids pork, manages a food allergy, or follows any other restriction, don't stop at asking whether she can accommodate it. Describe a real scenario: 'if you were cooking fried rice for us and it usually has a dash of cooking wine, what would you use instead, and how would you make sure it doesn't cross-contaminate with other dishes?' The answer tells you whether she understands the restriction or is just agreeing to keep the conversation moving.
Food safety habits are easy to overlook in an interview but matter every day in a working kitchen. Ask what she checks before serving chicken or fish, how she stores raw meat versus cooked food in the fridge, and how she handles leftovers. A candidate with real kitchen habits will describe specifics: internal doneness, separate containers, reheating temperature. A candidate without much hands-on experience often answers in general terms like 'I always make sure it's clean,' which isn't wrong, but doesn't show you anything.
- Turn dietary questions into a specific cooking scenario
- Ask how raw and cooked food are stored separately
- Ask what tells her a dish is fully cooked, not just 'looks done'
Separate an inflated claim from an honest one
Some candidates overstate their cooking range because they believe it's what you want to hear, and some really have broad experience. The difference usually shows up when you ask a follow-up question that a rehearsed answer can't anticipate: 'what's one dish you tried that didn't turn out well, and what did you change the next time?' Someone with real experience usually has an answer ready, because cooking mistakes are ordinary. Someone without much experience may struggle to name one, or give an answer that sounds invented on the spot.
It also helps to ask what she cooks least confidently, alongside what she cooks well. A candidate who is honest about a weaker area (say, baking, or a specific regional cuisine) is often more reliable in the areas she does claim, because she isn't presenting herself as equally strong at everything. Treat an answer of 'I can cook anything' with the same caution as a claim with no limits at all.
- Ask about a dish that didn't turn out well, and what changed after
- Ask what she cooks least confidently, not only her strengths
- Compare her answers across two or three unrelated dishes for consistency