Start with the household, not the candidate
List household size, ages, work patterns and who is present at different times of day. A family where both parents leave before seven needs a different rhythm from one with a parent working from home, and that difference should be written down before any interview question is drafted.
Add the physical setup: number of floors, whether the role includes live-in accommodation, and any household member with a specific care or mobility need. These details decide which tasks matter most, long before a candidate's own experience is discussed.
- Household size and ages
- Work and school hours
- Live-in or live-out arrangement
- Any specific care needs at home
Put a number on budget and a name on every task
Set the monthly budget range the household can sustain before speaking to a single candidate, including how the figure was reached. A range fixed early keeps the interview focused on fit rather than becoming a negotiation that reopens after rapport has already formed.
Turn broad wishes into specific tasks: not "good with children" but which ages, which routines, and how much independent responsibility is expected. Not "can cook" but which meals, how often, and for how many people. A task list this specific is what an interview question should be built from.
- Monthly budget range and how it was set
- Cooking: meals, frequency, dietary needs
- Care duties: ages, routines, supervision level
- Pets or other specific household tasks